Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Life as we know it

Life can be a blessing or a curse. It all depends on how we live it. I lived life on my terms and saw the bad side of it. People take pride in the fact that they decide how to lead their life but I choose to disagree. If every body thought that way then there would be no peace among 2 individuals. I am not saying bend down, but I also dont say that stand up by knocking others down. Apna policy to sirf ek - Jiyo aur Jine do (Live and let live). Any 2 individuals in any kind of relationship can only live in harmony if they see a disagreement from the opposite person's point of view.

Adjustment is a boon I got from my sister. Dhwani, my lil angel, the most calm and matured girl I have ever come across. Somebody who has mastered the art of conflict control. You can never disagree or fight with her. Reason - she will never give you a reason to get angry with her and she will never ever do anything that can cause disagreement between her and another individual. Soft spoken, peace loving and selfless - these words best describe my little angel. She expresses her love in silent ways. She is not the kind of person who will do something for you and then keep reminding you about the obligation you have till the end of your life. I treasure her immensely and she is truly and inspiration to my way of living. If people follow Gandhigiri I follow Dhwani - giri lol...

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Its the people in your life that make it worth living!

Inspired by my ever so inspiring Jaimit Sir, I decided to start writing and make my own blog spot. Memories never fade away but they do dim out and once in a while need to be fine tuned.

Yash, my lil brother, is 1 of the most precious people in my life. The day he was born I held him in my arms all day and did not even let my own dad take him away from me. He was the cutest little thing the day he was born. Today however he is a complete spoilt brat for which I gladly take all credit. Today the FYJC forms were out. I asked him if he wanted me to accompany him to which he refused - "Relax I can manage on my own" .. Yeh right you can. But deep down I knew he is no longer the baby I always treat him as. He is a 16 year old boy who cannot wait to start his life in college. I hate the fact that he does not need me now. How can he not?.. I am his big sis after all.

When away from him I miss all the fights
we have. I provoke him till he gets all mad at me. And then we fight. Its sheer pleasure fighting with him. It is not a fist fight but a battle of wits - who has the last word. There is no verbal abuse, no bad words. Just plain picking on each other till 1 of us drops our weapons. When I am away we talk a lot on the phone too, but because of time and cost constraint we never end up in a fight.

I take pride in the fact that he is just like me when it comes to our likes and dislikes. This makes us a great team when we want to go out together to see a movie or have dinner. My sister Dhwani however is the odd 1 out. I feel bad for her at times cos wen we go out - MAJORITY WINS!

Yash will soon get admission and start his college life. It will be a life changing experience for him. New friends, girlfriends (maybe -wish not lol), new habbits, new challeneges. All this may be a little intimidating for me as I have always been protective about him. However all I wish is he stays the same. I cannot imagine my life without this brat brother of mine. Its the people in your life that make life worth living.